Valobasi tomay ami bojabo ki kore.
Bolo jodi bose thakbo tomar potho cheye.
Tumar ak hasite jeno jore pore tara.
Tumi jodi chao ami akash ke bolbo hote disahara .
Ure jabo ami oi nilimar boke.Bese jabo ami oi sagorer maje.
Koto balo basi ami jano tumi.Nodi jamon boye chole ojan dike.
Ajob ai bumite tumi ami ak sateKoto asa niye mone bolchi tomar kache.
Jodi blobaso amay tumi,hariye jabo ami tomar maje

I am really good at being single. I utilize time alone fantastically and rarely ever get lonely. I have a tremendous set of friends who never never let things get dull, and I always have something going on. Poker, softball, basketball, , traveling drinking, you name it along with a little girl. If I were to get into a relationship, these things would suffer. I think this is the problem with most people.


I think a lot of people don't consider the sacrifices that people have to make to be in a relationship. Girls just watch too many chick flicks and guys are so hopped up on the idea of regular sex, that they just jump in before they really get to know each other. From there, people then discover whether or not one another was worth the sacrifices it takes to be in a relationship and when they start realizing they are not, they are mired in a shitty relationship. The problem? They devalued the life of a single person.


I have been single for the better part of 7 years with some near misses along the way. I know something very important- These years are rare. We all will will find someone at some point. The real question is, how did we spend the time we had alone? The compromises we make in a relationship are easier to make for two reasons. (1) If we get our fill of being alone. (2) If they person we are with is worth whatever compromises we have to make to be with them. How is this possible?


When you are single, you have to enjoy the fuck out of it. You have to get yourself to the point where by the time you are with someone you have all of your shit out of your system so yo don't feel like you are missing out. But more importantly, the person you end up with has to be more appealing than your single life. What I am trying to say is that person has to be the reason... not just being with someone.


I am good at being single because I don't get lonely. I think lonely people are sad because they are so unaware of themselves, they need someone to feel better. This is the person that becomes the clingy co dependent mate in a relationship. I am good at being single because I know   exactly what kind of girl it will take for me to be cool with making those compromises, and I am perfectly happy being alone till I find it.


But when that time comes. That girl will know she can take it personally. Because I will think a life with her is better that a life I am already enjoying already.



Did you like being single?

Do you wish you did it longer?

Is it me, or is being lonely a scary personality trait?

Jhodi tumi manush k onubhob korte nai parle shudu dekhle tar protibondhokota, tahole tumi ondho ei roye gele..                                 Jhodi tumi shunte na pao shubicharer jonno tomar bhaier kanna, tobe se tomar nischit bodhirota.                                                                 Jhodi tumi relation na rakho tomar boner songhe take bonchito koro tomar adormoy songho theke, tobe tumi mentaly protibondhi.                           Jhodi tumi protibadhi na haoo manusher odhikarer pokhkhe, se tomar mentaly sthobirota.                                                                       Okhkhom der proti amader kharaf monobhab, etai hoito amader boro protibondhokota.....